What We Work With

Start with what is happening.

You do not need the right diagnosis, the right language or a clear explanation for why things feel the way they do.

What We Work With

You do not need to know what to call it.

People come to The Ridge for different reasons. Sometimes the problem is obvious: burnout, anxiety, a relationship that is no longer working, or something from the past that still feels present. Sometimes it is harder to name. Life may still be functioning while something underneath it is becoming harder to carry. These are starting points, not boxes you need to fit into. More than one may feel familiar.

Burnout

Exhausted, but rest never seems to solve it.

You are exhausted, but stopping does not seem to fix it. Pressure builds again quickly. Rest helps temporarily, then the same responsibilities, expectations or patterns bring you back to the same place.

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Executive Burnout

Still performing, while your capacity quietly runs out.

You are still performing. People still rely on you. From the outside, very little may look wrong. Privately, the capacity that has carried you for years is beginning to run out.

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Anxiety & Overthinking

Always anticipating, analysing and struggling to switch off.

Your mind rarely stops. You anticipate, analyse, prepare and try to stay ahead of what might happen. Control can make life feel manageable, but switching off becomes increasingly difficult.

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Trauma & Earlier Experiences

Earlier experiences still shaping how you respond now.

Something that happened before is still shaping what happens now. It may show up through vigilance, withdrawal, difficulty trusting, relationship patterns, self-protection or responses that feel bigger than the present situation.

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Low Mood & Depression

Life continuing, but interest and connection becoming harder to access.

Interest, motivation, pleasure or connection to life has become harder to access. You may still be functioning, but things that once mattered feel increasingly distant or difficult to engage with.

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Emotional Numbness & Disconnection

Functioning normally while feeling increasingly absent from your own life.

Life continues to work on paper, but you feel increasingly absent from it. Closeness, pleasure, emotion or a sense of connection to yourself can feel muted, inaccessible or strangely far away.

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Relationships & Couples

Conflict, distance or patterns between you that keep repeating.

The difficulty is not always located in one person. Repeating conflict, emotional distance, loss of intimacy, trust or patterns between two people can become the reason for seeking deeper work.

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I Don't Know What To Call It

Something is wrong, but no single label quite fits.

You may not have a diagnosis or a single obvious problem. You simply know that something has become repetitive, costly or increasingly difficult to change within ordinary life. That is enough of a place to begin.

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The setting

The work happens somewhere deliberately different.

The therapeutic work takes place at The Ridge near Pizarra, Málaga. Psychotherapy, equine work, wilderness work, breathwork and physical challenge move between the therapy space, the horses and the surrounding landscape.

This is not scenery added around therapy. The change of environment is part of what allows ordinary routines, roles and distractions to fall away long enough for something different to happen.

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Who holds the work

The person matters as much as the programme.

Simon Hitchcock is a British integrative psychotherapist with more than fifteen years of clinical experience. The first task is not deciding which programme to sell you. It is understanding what is actually happening and whether The Ridge is the right setting for it.

Every prospective participant speaks with Simon personally before anything is confirmed. That conversation is where the label becomes an individual picture: what is happening now, what keeps repeating and what appears to sit underneath it.

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When the label isn't the point

Different symptoms can come from the same pattern.

Burnout, anxiety, emotional disconnection, low mood and relationship difficulties often overlap. What appears to be one problem can be connected to something deeper around safety, control, pressure, trust or withdrawal.

The Ridge is not built around selecting a label and applying a standard programme to it. Simon works with what keeps repeating and what appears to sit underneath it.

How The Ridge Works

Space around the work

A separate place to stop at the end of the day.

Participants stay in peaceful rural accommodation approximately one kilometre from The Ridge. The therapeutic work happens at The Ridge itself, while the accommodation gives you somewhere separate to sleep, rest and allow the day to settle.

Accommodation, meals and agreed Málaga airport transfers are included across the Ridge formats.

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Traditional suite at the nearby rural accommodation for The Ridge Intensive

Exterior of the nearby rural accommodation used during The Ridge Intensive

Traditional bedroom at the nearby rural accommodation for The Ridge Intensive

You do not have to be in crisis

Functioning is not the same as being fine.

Many people who come to The Ridge are still working, making decisions, caring for other people and meeting their responsibilities.

The fact that you can continue functioning does not mean something is not costing you.

Sometimes the useful point to intervene is before the visible breakdown. When the same pattern is becoming harder to manage. When relationships are receiving whatever energy remains. When achievement no longer feels like it used to. When you know something needs to change, even if you cannot yet explain exactly what.

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Suitability

This work is not right for everyone.

The Ridge provides psychotherapist-led intensive therapeutic work. It is not an inpatient psychiatric hospital, emergency mental health service or medically supervised rehabilitation facility.

Not every situation is appropriate for intensive work in this environment.

Every prospective participant speaks privately with Simon before anything is confirmed. The purpose of that conversation is to understand what is happening, whether The Ridge is appropriate and which format, if any, can responsibly hold the work.

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You don't need to work out what you need before speaking with Simon.

If something on this page feels familiar, start with that.

Start the Conversation

The first conversation is there to understand what has brought you here, not to sell you into a programme.